Jennifer Needs To Feel More Secure

... and for once we're not talking about Aniston. JLo, whose marriage to Marc Anthony has been rumored to be on the rocks, is now talking about adding to their family - but not until she feels "more secure" in her relationship. I thought the vows, the wedding band and all the paperwork were things set in place to help one "feel secure" as a couple. What more does she need? The real issue is Marc's alleged desire to control her career - and Lopez is not having it anymore. A "source" told the New York Daily News, "Jennifer feels like Marc is holding her career back, and she's sick of his social butterfly mentality while she stays home with the twins." Really? You know they have a cadre of nannies at their fingertips. (It's rumored that each child has two caretakers apiece - plus a butler.) It could be that her love the spotlight is impeding family time more than Anthony's rule. Unfortunately Marc also enjoys being number one, so it's difficult to see where the two will compromise. It's funny - she'd be perfectly fine if it were the other way around, with Marc taking the backseat. Sounds like it's time for a little communication to happen between the couple - and perhaps a lesson that children change your lives and are not just accessories.